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Everyone wants to be loved, but can we actually handle love? Can it even exist without pain? Cgange someone we love gets hurt or feels upset, our natural response is to comfort them and provide them hrt the essential care they need to make sure everything is alright again. But what about when we are the ones that are susceptible for their pain? Somehow it is in the closest and most intimate relationships with lovers, family members and close friends that the most pain is inflicted on both sides.

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You can only find happiness when you let it go and make room for something better.

Which do you choose: anger with yourself and prolonged pain, or forgiveness and the potential for peace? As an alternative, be very willing to see through these stories as much as is needed. Once you see that the ball is totally in your court, you have set the stage for deep letting go. Note: This is the seventh in a series of posts on Life-Changing Facts. Cultivate a fire for peace and ease that serves you well.

Chanye it even exist without pain?

Pain changes you

It can happen that you may unwillingly hurt the other when the emotional distance between you seems a bit too close for your liking. You might yo very familiar with feeling like a victim. Make a list, and explore whether you can remind yourself to choose one of those and employ it, next time you are just about to harm your loved one with your words or actions.

Your present moment experience in the now is what keeps the past alive. However, this lack of inhibitions and boundaries makes it easier to unintentionally hurt the other person. They may need to take things a bit slower, and hhurt has nothing to do with you. If these tendencies cause you problems in your relationships, here is your opportunity.

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For better or worse, pain changes you. With that person comes all their wounds though. Everyone wants to be loved, but can we actually handle love?

Moreover, the phenomenon of displacement is something that happens quite often among people that spend a lot of time together. Often times, this can break a person; causing the person to find it hard to trust, be vulnerable, or simply love again.

When you go through so much pain that happiness, genuine happiness, seems so far out of reach it can be hard to see things the same way. For the first time, I can honestly say a piece of me was broken inand it terrifies me. Someone puts themselves out on the line — dares to be seen for who they tuat, and sometimes face some of the worst outcomes.

One more thing we all have in common: we can only provide those things for ourselves. No amount of reassurance will change what happened.

Beliefs about healing can get in the way. If you know your past is still nipping at your heels, read on.

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Always in love. Relationship troubles relate to your past. So give them time; give them what they need. It means emotionally approaching another individual too closely, even merging with them in a way.

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Our topic today is the big question: why do we hurt the ones we love the most? This is a fact, and a frequent research objective. Or maybe, I should say, pain most importantly. The path to healing opens up once you are fed up by how chanye stories about the past impact you.

10 life-changing facts to heal the pain of the past

Feeling safe means trusting that the other will accept us even if we dare to be ourselves fully. Being stuck in the past means that a part of your heart is closed. We look to recreate in our intimate relationships the feelings we knew so well in childhood, as these were taught to us by our primary caregivers and later on probably often repeated by romantic partners too.

How was recovery attempted after hurt? Do you feel you need approval and attention? Accept All of Them; Past, Present, and Future Accepting someone as they are and supporting their goals should come as a given. But with time, most people return to the path of giving it another shot.

A guide to loving someone whose been hurt

Now notice this: You are aware, and these sensations are appearing in your awareness. For the past 9 months I have been lost, hoping that cyange would get better, expecting things to just go back, and sometimes it does, but not really.

Read on to find out how. The Trust and Safety Paradox The more intimacy, love and trust is developed between two partners, the more freedom you feel to just be yourself and not censor your words and actions. Just for a moment, let yourself lose interest in these thought stories. Notice how entranced you can be by the stories of drama and victimhood that appear in your mind. Memories are not the problem. Direct aggression is mostly exerted towards ificant others and siblings, while close friends are most likely to be targets of nondirect aggression, either indirect i.